I'm really worried because I'm getting married in November, and my fianc doesn't know I'm not a virgin. I had sex when I was 18, and now I'm 21. I've done a lot of fingering too. When I first had sex, it didn't hurt, and there wasn't any blood. I've heard about alum for tightening, and I want to know if it could help. Can you give me any advice on becoming a virgin again or making it seem like I am?

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Dr Chandra P

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MBBS
5+ Yrs

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Unfortunately, once you have had sex and lost your virginity, there is no way to get your virginity back

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