Husband Feels Stitches After Hysterectomy: Know Why
Wondering why your husband may feel stitches during intimacy after your hysterectomy? Understand the reasons behind this sensation, recovery factors, and when to seek medical advice.
Written by Dr.Sonia Bhatt
Last updated on 4th Jul, 2025
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Introduction
If your husband has mentioned feeling stitches after your hysterectomy, it’s natural to have questions and concerns. This article will help you understand why this might happen, whether it’s normal, and what steps you can take to ensure a smooth recovery for both of you.
What Is a Hysterectomy?
A hysterectomy is a surgical procedure to remove a woman’s uterus (womb). Depending on the reason for surgery, the doctor may also remove the cervix, ovaries, or fallopian tubes. There are different types of hysterectomies:
Total Hysterectomy: Removal of the uterus and cervix.
Partial (Supracervical) Hysterectomy: Only the upper part of the uterus is removed, leaving the cervix.
Radical Hysterectomy: Removal of the uterus, cervix, part of the vagina, and surrounding tissues (usually for cancer treatment).
The surgery can be performed through:
Abdominal incision (open surgery)
Vaginal approach (no external cuts)
Laparoscopic or robotic-assisted (minimally invasive)
Why Might Your Husband Feel Stitches After Surgery?
After a hysterectomy, the vaginal cuff (the top of the vagina where the cervix was removed) is stitched closed. These internal stitches dissolve over time but may remain firm for several weeks. Here’s why your husband might feel them during intimacy:
1. Healing Process: The vaginal area is still healing, and the stitches may feel slightly rough or firm.
2. Dissolvable Stitches: These take time to soften and disappear (usually 4-6 weeks).
3. Sensitivity Changes: Post-surgery, the vaginal tissues may be more sensitive, making stitches more noticeable.
4. Scar Tissue Formation: As healing progresses, slight scar tissue can form, which may feel different.
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Is This Normal?
Yes, it’s normal for stitches to be felt in the first few weeks after surgery. However, if your husband experiences:
Sharp pain
Bleeding after intimacy
Unusual discomfort
You should consult your doctor to rule out complications like infection or improper healing.
When Can You Resume Intimacy After Hysterectomy?
Doctors typically recommend waiting 6-8 weeks before resuming sexual activity to allow proper healing. However, always follow your surgeon’s advice, as recovery varies based on:
Type of hysterectomy
Your overall health
Any complications during surgery
Tips for a Comfortable Recovery
Some of the tips for a comfortable recovery are:
1. Wait for Medical Clearance: Don’t rush intimacy; let your body heal fully.
2. Use Lubrication: Post-surgery dryness is common; water-based lubricants can help.
3. Go Slow & Communicate: Gentle intimacy and open communication with your partner can ease discomfort.
4. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Kegel exercises can strengthen vaginal muscles and improve comfort.
5. Stay Hydrated & Eat Well: A balanced diet supports healing.
When to See a Doctor?
Contact your healthcare provider if you notice:
Persistent pain during/after sex
Unusual vaginal discharge or bleeding
Foul odor (sign of infection)
Stitches not dissolving after 6 weeks
Conclusion
Recovery after a hysterectomy takes time, and it’s normal for stitches to be felt initially. Patience, proper care, and following medical advice will help ensure a smooth healing process. If you have concerns, don’t hesitate to reach out to your doctor.
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