Ever since the past 10 years, I've been masturbating two or three times a day. But recently, I've noticed that my penis isn't getting hard while I do it. I hardly have sex, maybe once or twice a year, and even then, I don't ejaculate. Now I'm really worried because it's becoming a problemnot just the erectile issue, but also hair loss. I feel like everything's falling apart, and I've even started having suicidal thoughts. I'm too embarrassed to talk to anyone about it. Can you suggest what I should do?

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Dr Shubham Chauhan

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Im so sorry youre feeling this wayits important to know this can be treated. Erectile issues and hair loss might stem from stress, hormonal imbalances, or over-masturbation. Please see a doctor to check your testosterone and mental health; you're not alone, and help is available.

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Immediate Mental Health Support
- Seek urgent help for suicidal thoughts by contacting a mental health professional or helpline immediately.
Medical Evaluation
- Schedule a comprehensive check-up to identify causes of erectile dysfunction and hair loss.
- Consider tests for hormone levels and thyroid function.
Specialist Consultations
- Consult a psychiatrist for mental health, an endocrinologist for hormonal issues, and a dermatologist for hair loss.
Treatment Options
- Explore treatments for erectile dysfunction and hair loss based on diagnosis.
- Consider mental health therapies, including counseling or medication.
Lifestyle and Support
- Adopt healthy lifestyle changes like diet, exercise, and stress management.
- Seek support from family, friends, or support groups.
Follow-up and Monitoring
- Regularly follow up with healthcare providers to monitor progress and adjust treatments.

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