- female
- 26 Years
- 29/01/2025
I'm a 26-year-old woman with a 10-month-old daughter, and I've noticed something that's been bothering me. About a year and a half ago, my sexual desire started to gradually fade, and now it feels like it has completely disappeared. My husband and I can go months without being intimate, and honestly, it doesnt really bother me. When we do have intimate moments, its more out of obligation because I feel guilty about making him wait so long. I'm worried about why this is happening and wondering if there's something I should be doing to bring back my desire. Could there be an underlying issue I need to address?
Answered by 1 Apollo Doctors
You're experiencing hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD), characterized by persistent low libido. Common causes include:
Physical Factors
- Hormonal imbalances (estrogen, progesterone, or testosterone)
- Sleep disturbances
- Stress and anxiety
- Postpartum changes
- Medications (antidepressants, birth control)
Emotional and Psychological Factors
- Relationship issues (communication, intimacy, or trust)
- Depression or anxiety
- Low self-esteem
- Trauma or past experiences
- Life transitions (marriage, parenthood)
Next Steps
- Consult a healthcare provider or therapist to rule out underlying medical conditions.
- Explore couples therapy to address relationship dynamics.
- Consider sex therapy to address intimacy and desire.
- Discuss hormone replacement therapy (HRT) or other treatment options with your healthcare provider.
Dr. Dr Khaleel Suggests...
Consult a Obstetrician and Gynaecologist
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