I'm really struggling with something and could use some advice. I've been in a relationship for almost 10 years, and I'm deeply in love with her, but lately things have been off. Communication has been bad, and two years ago, something changed, but we never talked about it. I recently heard she's getting married, but then she said it was called off because her parents wouldn't agree. It's leaving me feeling really lost. I'm super emotional and can't seem to focus on anything else. The idea of losing her is just too much. How do I deal with this situation and the depression thats coming with it? I feel like I can't move forward. What should I do?

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Dr Dhankecha Dineshbhai

General Practitioner

MBBS
6+ Yrs

Consult Now

It sounds like you're going through an emotional storm, and that's totally valid. But the key thing is to take care of yourself right now. Start with small steps to work through your feelings, seek therapy or counseling if possible, and start exploring what brings you fulfillment outside of the relationship. Sometimes, personal growth and healing come from challenging situations like this, even though it's tough at the moment.

Answered 04/07/2025

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